Month: February 2021

Were Our Latinx Ancestors The Original Health, Wellness & Hygge Influencers?

Avocado Toast made the palta
Avocado Toast made the palta

 

I don’t know about you but I got surprised and annoyed when cozy things like avocado toast and quinoa and almond milk and DIY kefir started becoming trendy. Around the 00’s they started becoming associated with California, cities like here in San Francisco, my hometown Los Angeles: Articles made fun of $15 avocado toast and called kefir the ultimate Goop trend.

Here’s the thing: These habits have been helping and guiding our ancestors self-care for centuries. They had their own version of “hygge”. I think it was just called trying to survive life.

Our Latinx ancestors were the original health and wellness influencers!

Here are some cozy habits they used to survive, protect themselves, and focus on happiness, that we can all use right now:

Once – Elevensies

South Americans have been eating pan con palta (aguacate) during once forever. Don’t know what once is? It’s the equivalent of “high tea” for the Brits. And it was created by our sorta Latino (?) primos in Portugal. Here’s what NPR has to say:

As we’ve reported, Portugal’s Catherine of Braganza is credited with introducing tea to England after marrying King Charles II in 1662. That got people curious about this new brew, but it wasn’t until the 1800s, when tea prices dropped dramatically and it became affordable for everyone, that the culture of tea really took root.

Afternoon tea — the kind of fancy-schmancy affair where we might spot Lady Mary of Downton Abbey — emerged as a social event sometime around the 1830s or 1840s, Richardson writes in A Social History of Tea. And Anna Maria Russell, duchess of Bedford, led the pack.

For us, it was the original old school miners that brought it to our country, and the routine just stuck around. Nowadays, during once in Chile (and other surrounding countryes), one often has avocado toast, with tea and maybe some goat cheese. In fact, I remember this was my favorite treats after coming home from el colegio in my stinky school uniform.

So, no, Avocado Toast isn’t the creation of Katie’s Zen Room in the Mission or Chad’s Boho Bar in Silverlake. Us Latinos were doing it looong before it signed with a major record label. When we were literally 8.

Kefir

Making your own kefir has a long history with American hippies and hipsters. It’s associated with health food restaurants and your cool hippie parents from Berkeley.  Now, you can’t throw a stone without hitting a homesteading influencer making her own yogurt or kefir. Of course, everyone’s ancestors made their own kefir (I am looking at you, descendants of pioneers from Eastern Europe), but our ancestors – our own grandparents – were often elbow deep in it every Sunday. Kefir grains are known to us as pajaritos – which means birds – and were used and passed around in their neighborhood by our grannies in our home countries. If you’re Latina, ask your parents what a pajarito is. It’s very likely that a lovely memory will visit them, and they will smile and tell you a story. Now, we weren’t they originators  of kefir – that honor goes to the ancestors of our Russian friends – but they took it seriously. (I am starting to sound like My Big Fat Greek Wedding” dad Michael Constantine. We invented eeeeeverything).

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Tranquilidad Para Mamas Latinas: Hygge & KonMari Lifestyle Inspiration Ideas

Thanks to the global disaster we are all experiencing, everyone – but particularly mamas – is stuck at home for a while. But not just stuck at home – many of us suddenly have about 14 new jobs to do: teacher, early childhood educator, chef and cook, housekeeper, gardener, family schedule organizer, and much more. Many have had to leave their careers to take care of the kids and the house full time. In fact, 2 million women left the workforce since February of last year.

It’s a wonderful job to be able to take care of your babies, but it’s also very hard. Much harder than people think. Your back hurts, your body aches, you have no time to take care of yourself, you have to function with little sleep. It’s completely life changing experience, especially if you are a first time mom to a new baby.

This is why it’s incredibly important to make some time para ti, because a well-rested mama, who feels good, is a happy mama. How many times have you turned your day around because you simply took a shower or washed your face or put on a delicious face serum? Te tienes que cuidar, mama!

Don’t know where to start? These self-care philosophies can help. Through little tweaks and tricks, and starting with just a few minutes a day, you’ll hygge your way to feeling better and even having more energy.

 

Get Rid of Cosas Like KonMari

One thing we all get stuck doing is the laundry or hacer el aseo por la casa, cierto? So why not make it work for you.  In her book The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up, Marie Kondō’s closet cleaning strategy is to get rid stuff que no te da felicidad (sparks joy), and that we don’t need. Next time you tidy up your drawers, through everything into a pile in the middle of the room, and go through each one, asking yourself “does this give me joy?” if it doesn’t, tiralo!

A Comprar Velas Para Ser Mas Hygge!

Candles are all the rage right now, a major buzz in the self-care space. Candles are a major part of the Danish tranquilidad philosophy called Hygge. They create a sense of calm and stillness and are used a ton in countries that practice hygge, mainly used to substitute for actual lamps. Play with lighting; create “pockets of light” in little corners of the room, instead of having one large lamp on top of your head.  Have a candle on top of your dresser, and a dim light on your bedside table. Pero con cuidado!

Live the Anti-Inflammatory Vida:
Inflammation is how the body protecting itself against things that are damaging like toxins, infections, etc. Living an inflammatory life means trying to get rid of things that harm your body from your beauty routine, your food, and the stuff you use to clean your house. Eating anti-inflammatory foods, which really just means eating foods that are good for you or that help get rid of inflammation – is soothing and calming. How good do you feel when you don’t overeat and have some delicious creamy quinoa with salmon, maybe a side of avocado? Or how soothing it is to sit and drink chamomile tea? That’s living an anti-inflammatory life.

 

 

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Meet The Coziest Latina

Hey, soy La Coziest Latina y soy originalmente de Chile, although I came here to the United States when I was little. Lo que me paso es que the pandemic made me a stay at home mama (SAHM).
You see, we were living in the hustle and bustle of downtown San Francisco, and having an awesome time –  working hard (I had my own business where I helped technology startups with growth), working out, and playing hard with nuestros amigos maravillosos (en serio: it was Napa one weekend, Carmel or Tahoe the next, and nothing but spectacular cuisine and fun and games in between).

When we got pregnant we thought things would be the same but different in a totally wonderful new way. But then 2020 happened, and the pandemic hit SF.  The week after we came home with esta nueva guaguita, when things got real, and we realized how hard it was going to be for first time parents to a teeny baby in a tiny two bedroom apartment with no yard (a shared rooftop patio), during all of the lockdowns. En serio, you couldn’t go three feet without walking into someone else. I also had to stop working because we didn’t want to get a nanny or send her to day care, and decided I would take care of the baby full time during all of the chaos.

So we packed our bags and headed east – to a tiny, beautiful town in suburbs of the Bay Area, where we found ourselves in almost 2 acres, surrounded by land and pine trees and redwoods, and a family of deer, and bobcats, and pajaros – tantos pajaros!

This opened us up to a world I never thought I would become part of: a world where you bake bread and knead dough to bake your own empanadas; create your own Christmas wreaths with the branches from your very own pines; where you eat the fruit that you pick from the garden and you make jams and syrups and spreads from the stuff you pick from bushes just three feet from your driveway; where you plant your own peppers and tomatoes for fajita night, and herbs for el tesito de la tarde.

And something happened that was wonderful. The more I made things like my own coffee mask, or gluten free bread, or olive oil candles, or the more I made our bedroom cozy with candles and fresh new bedding, the better I felt during those dark fall and winter days of 2020, when sometimes everything felt terrible in the outside world. It just felt really good. After birth, I was left with a lot of body pain, and I wasn’t able to do much about it. It was the best place for postpartum healing and trying to go back to normal.

I don’t remember what I was reading or watching, but I bumped into a concept that in Danish culture is called hygge; the critical importance of making the home cozy. The word means a feeling of comfort and wellness through little things like un cafesito, a blanket, some super comfy PJs, a book, taking care of your garden. This has everything to do with self-care, or autocuidado, and doing things that protect your own well-being and happiness. I had bumped into this concept that had a name in the other side of the world but not here, but that fit so perfectly into this new era of self-care: protecting yourself and your family, and creating a feeling of goodness for your family during the difficult months of isolation.

This was basically called el invierno by our ancestors, wasn’t it? Our ancestors also had their version of this. We have our own hygge. It’s cooking recetas de las abuelas – making delicious sopa o a big pot of fideos para los 10 primos que lleragon a la casa; singing and playing guitarras together. Playing games like chess o cartas. Going to the playa for the weekend. Putting on some crema en la cara.

This is a blog about just that; my own journey into autocuidado, and the search for our own Latinx version of hygge. I don’t want to call it Latin hygge because we have our own self-care and cozy routines that have been passed down from generation to generation, to get through long winters. We just have to dig deep and define it, name it, and re-imagine it for modern times. It’s something like acurrucada.

So, welcome, muchas gracias por leer, and I hope you are as excited as I am about going through this journey of #latinacoziness together. Get cozy.